Three Things

Happy Tuesday, friends!!  Today, I am doing one of my very favorite kinds of posts and sharing 3 things about each of our family members!  It’s a new year, and I haven’t updated you on what’s going on here in quite some time!   Here we go!dsc_5527-2-2edit

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  1.  Rob–Rob is heading skiing with some friends soon, and I am super excited for him!   This is his first time on the slopes, so he will be in ski school and the whole 9 yards!
  2. A good friend had told me that after year 15 of marriage, you kind of get into a sweet spot…it’s a little hard to explain, but it’s pretty amazing, and I totally have to agree! Year 16 has been my favorite so far.  🙂
  3. Narci–It’s just business as usual for me.  I am busy mom-ing, running this crazy house, and structuring my Photography business for Spring and Fall 2018.  I am anxious for the warm weather and all the fun that it brings!

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  1. We are heading to Jackson’s first football banquet this week!  For now, he’s focusing on schoolwork and doing off season workouts, but he’s looking forward to playing again in the Fall. 🙂 Also, This will be the first year in TEN years that he won’t be playing Spring Baseball.  Oh man!   That tugs at our heart strings for sure, but it has been such a blessing to watch him grow and make these kinds of decisions. He is so smart and wise!
  2. Our big boy isn’t stopping growing!  He’s grown half an inch since December, and now is well over 6ft.  I kind of feel like Papa Elf with Buddy whenever I stand next to him. haha! If anyone has any recommendations on the best place to get slim pants in those tall lengths, send all of your wisdom to me.  I am struggling to keep clothes on this boy!
  3. Jackson has his first Debate competition this weekend!   He has such a gift for public speaking and absolutely no fear, so I am anxious to see how he does and if he enjoys it!


  1. Our boy Luke is playing winter soccer with his Rec soccer team and loving it!   It is such a different pace and so exciting to watch!  Luke loves to be moving at all times and will be so happy when the hustle and bustle of Spring soccer starts! 😉 #allboy
  2. Luke is still sporting his “signature” hairstyle.  Somehow it’s morphed from a faux-hauk into a swooshy-spike up front, and he’s super proud of it. 😉 Luke definitely has his own style!
  3. Luke is quite the artist!   With the colder weather, he hasn’t been able to go outside as much, so he’s been spending some time sketching and I am loving watching him stretch his creative side a bit.  His brother and sister are super creative, but Luke tends to not show his artsy side very often!   Now, if I can just get him to dance in public!  Luke Dreffs has killer dance moves, but he’s too shy to show them off.  😉


  1. It seems like overnight, but Presley has gone from the sweet baby of the family, to the resident family go getter.  She has definitely come into her own.  🙂 Presley loves a competition and wants her hand in pretty much everything she can manage: Volleyball, ballet, cheer…she’d keep on going if we let her!  This sweet girl is fun, hardworking, and born to be busy. I love watching her little personality develop!
  2. Rob and Presley are going to their first Daddy Daughter dance in a few weeks, and I can hardly stand the sweetness already!   She picked out a dress ( be prepared!  It makes a statement! ;)), we’ve ordered the corsage, and made all the arrangements!
  3. Presley is still my best snuggler and loves a night in our bed watching something girlie.

Oh my stars!   These are the days! Hope you enjoyed our 3 things today.  We have something fun planned for tomorrow!   Have a great day, y’all! XOXO Narci

Top 12 Beauty Products!

Hey, hey, y’all!  Happy Monday!!   Today, I am sharing my top TWELVE favorite beauty products!  I am all about having a solid line-up of great beauty products that deliver!  Some of these items are super affordable which is nice, because we all have different beauty budgets am I right?


I just love this awesome exfoliating scrub!   It always leaves my face looking fresh, and the price point is awesome.  I use this every single day, but you might start with using it once or twice a week to begin with!


Next up, I use this daily peel, and oh my goodness….I can’t sing enough praises about this!   So, I really don’t have the time to make it to the dermatologist on the regular, but this peel is a close second to monthly treatments in my book!   You will love it!


This is my go to daytime moisturizer, and I couldn’t be happier with the results!!  It’s light enough for my oily skin, and it applies super light and fresh!  I always mix it with a few drops of this serum as well!   Again, the price point is awesome for these two products! 


Next up, every girl needs a good concealer, right? 🙂

I have naturally dark circles around my eyes, so I love this for evening that out and cleaning up any imperfections I might have on any given day! I found this gem years ago at Sephora, and what a lifesaver it has been!


For foundation, I use a bit of my very favorite foundation.  I feel like Bobbi never steers us wrong!mixed with a drop of this SmashBox CC Cream


I like to mix these two products because I can control the amount of coverage for that particular day!


So, just recently, I had some Baylage done to my hair, and my normal shampoo and conditioner weren’t cutting it in the moisturizing department!   I went through a few products that were all good, but I really loved this shampoo and conditioner the best!

4215f38469463b925e8d04f6fa80b12a_bestccbe47327b0be8f8311b3a348e76b83c_bestIt is so moisturizing and made my hair feel so soft!  Also, pro tip: my stylist told me to apply the conditioner and then comb it through on the tips while I let it set.  This made such a huge difference!

Before I dry my hair, I apply this leave-in product


And, then I spray my hair with this heat protection spray before I style with a curling wand or flat iron.


After I style, I squirt a few pumps of this revive oil for a little shine!


I don’t know about you, but I love a good Beauty Post!  Have a great day, friends!  I will see you back here tomorrow! XOXO Narci

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites

Hey, y’all!! It’s Friday, and we are hosting Friday Favorites with my girls, Erika and Andrea!  I have a sweet little list of favorites this week!  Let’s get started!

These two kids were feeling pretty great on Wednesday! The heat went out at their school, so they got to come home early!

We’ve been over here enjoying this soundtrack. Have you seen this movie yet! I know it sounds crazy, but I want to go back and see it again. Who’s in? Haha!

During the Fall and Spring, our world usually revolves around the boys’ sports with Presley tagging along, but this Winter Presley is enjoying the spotlight a bit! First, Ballet and then she got to dance at church on Sunday.

It’s so neat to see her try some new things and love them!

We’ve been playing outside when we can….

And snuggling together during the cold weather like it’s our job.

These are the days, am I right? ❤️

Oh, and guess what? I’ll be hosting a fun little Stella and Dot giveaway over on Instagram! Hop on over there if you’d like a chance to win some jewelry!

Happy Friday, y’all!! We will see you back here on Monday! Xoxo narci




So, I posted this on my Instagram this week, and we all had to laugh about #theSouth in the Wintertime….


I posted this, because I really did run to the store when it looked like snow might be heading our way overnight.  Because I love a good panic moment, I bought water, bread, milk (people, we don’t even drink that much milk!), 2 packs of cards (in case the power went out and we needed a distraction), and sour gummy worms (duh!).  We were prepared for whatever came our way, y’all.  haha!  This Texas girl simply doesn’t do inclement weather well.  Go ahead and blame it on my roots.  ;).

Happy Thursday, y’all! XOXO Narci


What I’m Wearing Wednesday

 With the Holidays, I didn’t have as much time to link up source details for my outfits!  So, here are all your fashion questions answered and what I’ve been wearing lately!


This cold-shoulder sweater is sold out, but you should definitely check out all of the rest of the BP sweaters this season!   There are so many cute ones! :). BP really knocked it out of the park with their sweaters this winter!img_4423

IF I had to name an MVP for this season, it would be this cozy sweatshirt.   Since I work from home, this sweatshirt is on repeat over here.  I love it!img_4383

Another one that I am loving is this fleece turtleneck!img_4347

I am still a big fan of this amazing pullover!   I am wearing it just as I type this!   I love it styled as pictured above, but I think it is darling with leather leggings and booties also!


A few of you asked about this turtleneck sweater, and it’s another cute one!  I think my color is sold out, but it comes in 3 other colors!!img_4228

My pajamas that I’ve shown are all sold out, but I want to share my favorite little secret when it comes to jammies!   Old Navy has the cutest prints, and they are all a great price!  I love this style, these, and these!img_3994

On Christmas Eve, I wore this green dress, these over these knee boots, and this coat!img_3979

I picked up this City coat in December, and I get so many compliments on it!img_3741-1img_4326

And, I am loving this beanie and my new grey Uggs!  These go with everything!img_4723

A few of you asked about my camera bag, and you can find it here!

Happy Wednesday, friends!!  Remember, I’ll just be sharing something fun tomorrow since it’s Thursday and back here on Friday for our Favorites!   Happy Wednesday, y’all! XOXO Narci

Tuesday Talk: Q & A, Part 1

Hey, y’all! Today, I am linking up with the sweetest girls, Ashley and Erika, for their fun link-up “Tuesday Talk!”

Each month, we link up and discuss a different topic! This month I am answering some of your questions from our survey last week!  If I didn’t answer your question today, no worries!   I will be having several installments of our Q & A coming up!

1.  Where did you grow up?

I am a Texas girl, born and raised in the Dallas-area.  We moved around inside of Dallas during my younger years and then settled into the suburbs when I was in the 2nd grade.  🙂  I graduated from Plano Senior High School (Go Wildcats!!) where I spent most of my time flirting with the boys in my class instead of actually studying. ;). Somehow, I managed to do well in my classes despite the distractions which proves that I’ve always loved to multitask my time, I guess.  Or that I got really lucky. ha!

2.  Can you share pictures of your wedding in Vegas?

If you are new here, Rob and I got married at the Excalibur Hotel in Las Vegas.  It turns out that since it’s a castle themed hotel, Merlin the magician does the officiating at these ceremonies.  For the longest time, Rob and I couldn’t agree on whether or not Merlin wore a hat or not when he married us…so when I came across our wedding pictures several years ago and realized he was right…I did what any good wife would do…I photoshopped in a hat and texted it to him as proof that I’m always right.  😉


And, can we all agree that Robert Dreffs was GOING IN FOR THE KISS on this picture. Oh my stars, this all still makes me laugh!

3.    How do you manage all of your kids activities and still stay sane?  Are the kids allowed to play as many sports as they want?  How do you handle that?

This is a great question!   When the kids were younger, Robert travelled for weeks at a time, so I was often the only one available to cart Jackson to practices, games, and such with a baby and toddler in hand!   So, we made a rule early on that each child was only allowed one sport at a time.  🙂 Since Rob works out of Dallas now, we’ve relaxed on this a bit here recently…Last season, we let Presley play volleyball and cheer for a little flag football team, Luke plays on two soccer teams, and Jackson plays football and the violin in his school orchestra which are two huge time commitments….We are a busy family, but we are very protective of our nights off and Sunday mornings…there are many times that we turn down extra sports, social invites and couple nights because we know we need those quiet moments as a family to just BE and to worship God.

4.  Where’s Dixie? 😉

I love that you guys want to know about our Dixie girl!  She’s still here and happy as a clam!

She’s always part of whatever the kids are doing and in the mix of our family. She’s part yorkie and is super BUSY, but she’s turning 2 next month…and we are noticing that she’s finally outgrowing that crazy puppy stage.  So, hopefully, we’ll have some more Dixie pictures in the future. 😉 I’ll try to remember to do this more often!

5.  What do you eat?  How do you stay so fit?!

I tend to stay away from processed foods…artificial sweeteners give me migraines, so that means no soda either…and I have a dairy sensitivity (I can’t stop Queso and shredded cheese on occasion though. haha!)

I eat tons of salads for lunch, avocados, and I always try to eat a lot of protein-rich foods.  Naturally, my diet is fairly healthy, so when I choose to eat my entire weight in chips and dip at a Mexican restaurant, it all evens out, I guess.  😉

As I’ve mentioned before, working out is not my favorite…so I drag myself to a great cardio and strength training class with my girlfriends twice a week and stay pretty active during the day which I am sure helps as well!

6.  What did you do before you became a mom?

I worked in Development (fundraising) for a non-profit in the Dallas area! I loved this job so much, but it was hard as I would regularly transition from my normal 8-5 hours to different events and meetings with donors at least 3-4 nights per week.  And, this left for very little time at home.  :). So, we decided that I would stay at home when Jackson was born.

7.  How do you combat feelings of jealousy with other women?

I know this is such a hard area for women!   So, on this topic, I try and operate from a place of gratefulness (for my family, for my husband, for our circumstances…however perfect or imperfect they are at the moment)…But mostly…I have learned to be content in my relationship with God….and not in what I have in comparison to other women.    This right here is a game changer in the age of social media, I promise!

Also, I think it’s really important to surround yourself with the kind of women who are encouragers for you and aren’t manipulative or duplicitous in this area…..I am so thankful for the great group of women that I am friends with!

8.  Where do you like to buy your furniture, home decor, and other home knickknacks?

Most of our furniture and decor comes from Pottery Barn, Weirs, Wayfair, and Home Goods.  🙂

9.  Will you talk more about Parenting teens?  I feel so alone in this stage of life!

I am praying through this question, and I am not sure!   Part of me knows how hard this stage can be, but I am also very careful about maintaining privacy for my kids….plus I certainly don’t consider myself an expert.  For now, I think I will just be including little tidbits here and there when something works well for us.  🙂 I will keep you posted on this!

10.  What made you pick Ole Miss?    Would you want your kids to go there?

This decision all started very randomly,  but a high school classmate told me about Ole Miss!   I was already admitted and planning on attending SMU in Dallas, so we went to visit on a whim.  Needless to say, I fell in love with Ole Miss on that first visit , and then I received an academic scholarship to attend there after I applied! So my heart went off to Oxford, MS and never looked back!   I always say that I got a degree in Finance AND a degree in the Southeast while I was there.  😉  I love my Ole Miss family so much!

My hope for each of our kids is for them to follow God’s plan for them, so who knows where they will end up!   Jackson says he wants go somewhere warm (and probably in Texas), Luke is set on Michigan if he doesn’t go pro right after high school (His words. haha!), and Presley fell HARD for Ole Miss when we took her there last Fall.  But anything could happen with those three, and I am excited to watch THEIR future unfold!

11.  What time do you wake up and go to bed?  How do you stay consistent?

For the past year I’ve been waking up at 5:30, and it’s been really good for me!  I go to bed around 9:30 pm.  🙂 This allows me to get the rest that my body needs plus have time for my quiet time and such before the kids get up.  If I don’t take care of myself in this way, then my days usually don’t go as well….this makes it easier for me to keep it consistent. 🙂

12.  Was having toddlers easy for you?  I’ve been following you since your kids were little, and you make it look so easy!

I really enjoyed having babies and toddlers, but I remember how physically exhausting that stage of life can be!   When you have small kiddos, you are with them all the time, so doing things like signing up for a Bible Study with childcare or attending a gym are great ways to break up your week and take care of your spiritual and physical needs.

13.  Where’s your favorite place to vacation with your family?  Our favorite place to visit is the Destin, FL area!  We’ve been going since Jackson was a baby!   I just scheduled our trip this summer, and we are going to be staying on 30A just outside of Destin this time.  I can’t wait!

14.  How do you monitor electronic devices for your kids? I think we are in the minority here…our kids don’t have a lot of access to electronics.  (We’ve heard that we are terribly uncool because of this, though, so no worries. haha!). We allow cell phones with no data in middle school and then add in data in high school with restrictions.  iPad time is earned and it doesn’t happen every day in our house.   We have video games, but they maybe play them once a week?  I really have no idea if this is normal, but we felt that this was the right decision for our family… If you have great tips on this, I would love to hear them!

15.  What’s your favorite Devotional or Bible Study?  Hands Down, Fervent by Priscilla Shirer.  This one rocked my world in the best way!  If you haven’t read it yet, pick it up today!   It’s that good!

Okay, I feel like we covered a lot today!  I hope you guys loved reading a bit more about our little world!  Thank you for all your great questions!  I can’t wait to answer them all! Happy Tuesday, friends! XOXO Narci

Photo 101: What’s in my Camera Bag

Happy Monday, friends!!   I hope you had the best weekend!   We had a quiet weekend over here at the Dreffs’ house!   It was perfection!

Today is our awesome monthly feature, Photo 101, which is all about photography!  It has been a big hit with you guys, and I am so happy to be answering your photo-related questions again and sharing a few tips along the way!!     Each month, we will talk about various topics.  So far, we’ve discussed:

taking great pictures with your iPhone

where to print you images

photo storage

 being a mom with a camera

composing your images

editing workflow

photographing small children

and planning outfits for family pictures

And, this month, I am sharing about what’s in my camera bag!    Because, I know you guys are curious…I am sharing the camera that I started out with, the one I bought when I wanted to upgrade several years ago, and the one that I ordered recently!  Woohoo!

Camera Bag: Kelly Moore Bag

I just love this bag so much!   It’s pretty, and super functional with several pockets on the inside!

81jai73u-uL._SL1500_I always put my keys and phone in the front pockets, and it even fits my MacBook Pro as well!  Win-Win!  Now, let’s check out what’s actually IN my camera bag!

Canon Rebel: My first DSLR and a great Entry Level option!

This camera is an excellent option if you are interested in a beginner DSLR!   This was my first camera to learn photography on!

71k-ziW-knL._SX522_It is a intuitive camera and great for snapping great shots of your kids. Also, this camera is super popular, so there are tons of tutorials on the internet and youtube!  My sweet kiddos spent a lot of time in front of this little camera! :).

Nikon D750: Great Mid-Level Camera

So, a few years after I bought my first camera, I decided to invest is a more Complex camera! I bought a version of this camera all those years ago, and it is still hanging tough today!  It’s a great option if you are considering diving a little deeper into the technical side of shooting!  Once you really get the hang of shooting manual, many photographers find themselves wanting a slightly more sophisticated camera. This for the bill perfectly!

81PzqUBbnsL._SL1500_This was the perfect camera to build a business with and great in all sorts of shooting conditions!

Nikon D850

So, my current camera is about 7 years old, so I decided last Fall that it was time to upgrade!   I’ve been on the backorder list for this camera since November!   It’s just basically a newer version of my current camera, but I am super pumped about the option of being able to take videos and a few other bells and whistles!

71HJnJrxzEL._SL1152_.jpgI can’t wait to share my reviews of this camera later this Spring!

My favorite lenses

Wondering what lenses I carry around? My favorite lenses are this 50 mm lens…

81t8wRnW-GL._SL1500_and this versatile zoom lens.  I tend to use this one most for my portrait photography!   I like to be able to zoom when photographing small kids and this 2.8 aperture is pretty much perfect for a pretty portrait look. 🙂
UnknownSo, there you go!  That’s what is in my camera bag!  Tomorrow, we are back with our very first Q and A post!  I am answering YOUR questions from our survey tomorrow! It should be a blast! XOXO Narci

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites

Hey, y’all!! It’s Friday, and we are hosting Friday Favorites with my girls, Erika and Andrea!  I have a sweet little list of favorites, just our every day fun this week!  Let’s get started!

I saw this during my quiet time, and I just loved reading this!

In case you were curious, I am doing this devotional right now!

Miss Presley has been asking to take a ballet class for a few months now, so she started this week and was in PURE HEAVEN.

I loved watching her do her thing!   Ballet was a big hit for this girl! 

This boy made my mama heart happy  all decked out in his Ole Miss gear this week!   He is definitely a favorite!

My favorite also: our family playoff bracket.  It’s getting pretty heated up in the Dreffs house!  We are a competitive group, but Presley is in 1st place!   She picked her bracket based on the mascots! 😉

The kids went back to School this week.  After a few weeks of vacation, a little structure was our favorite!

and we’ve been getting into our normal groove with Volleyball


and I’ve been using my favorite vacuum cleaner

I surprised the kids with tickets to see the Greatest Showman!   Oh my gosh!   We LOVED this movie!

We downloaded the soundtrack, and it is amazing!  I think this is our favorite movie of the year!

Happy Friday, friends!   If you need me this weekend, I will be at the volleyball and soccer courts and snuggling with our cute crew during a cold winter weekend!  Sounds pretty much perfect! XOXO Narci

New Posting Schedule :)

Hey, y’all!!  Today, I am announcing our new posting schedule, and I am so excited!!

FullSizeRender So, I will be posting all of my official posts on these days!  Woohoo!

If you are a creature of habit like me, no worries…I will still be here on Thursdays, but I will be cutting a little loose on these days….sharing different memes, GIFs, or videos that I see during the week.  Just something fun to get us through Thursdays and back to our normal gig on Friday!   I hope you love our new format!

And, here’s our video for this Thursday! I hope you love this sweet story as much as I did! XOXO Narci

How We Wednesdays

Hey, y’all!!  Today, I am linking up with Shay and Erika for their fun monthly link-up “How We” Wednesdays!

How We

Each month, we share all about how we handle different areas of our life.  I am excited to dive into these different topics!

How We schedule

Truth be told: I am a busy girl….I manage three precious kiddos, their commitments, a photography business, this blog, a fun Stella and Dot gig, and much more.   I can’t wait to share what’s worked for our little family and read about your awesome tips, too.   My best ideas always come from my friends, so I am excited to hear what you have to say as well!

Today, we are talking about how we do New Years’ resolutions, goals, and such.  And, let’s be real…January is a popular time to be setting goals, so this couldn’t be better timing!

I tend to not set overly dramatic resolutions, but I do love setting goals!  This year, I decided to do things a little differently!  Like normal, I divided my goals into work, personal, and family.  I think the work ones are a little boring, but I’ll list my main one here just in case photography is your thing.  If not, you can skim past this part. 😉

Work Goals

-Offer online photography class–people have been asking me to do this forever, and this is the year that it will finally happen!    I am so excited about teaching new camera users a few things about their cameras!  If you are interested, stay tuned for details on that. 🙂

Personal Goals

I haven’t really talked about this here (or anywhere else for that matter), but I have a small confession to make.  Since I shared my testimony in front of a large group last March, I have had some offers to share it again or just speak in general…mainly from other churches and such.  And, I have said no to everything, because #extremestagefright and also because I just wasn’t sure that I was meant to share my story again (or really share much of anything again!)….but God has been working on my heart…So, I’ve gone ahead and said yes to a few requests for 2018 that I felt called to….  I seriously broke out in a NERVOUS SWEAT just typing that, but I know that He will work out the details of all those opportunities.  He is in the business of taking messy people like me and shining His Glory through their fumbling ways…I am resting on that promise for this one, people. ;). If I don’t delete this paragraph and cancel those speaking opportunities by the time this posts, then you will know that Satan didn’t win for today.  haha.

 Family Goals

For our family, we decided to do something completely different and create a Monthly Bucket List with simple and fun things to make us more intentional about spending time together. I feel like it’s so hard to move from saying you want to be more intentional…to actually being more intentional.  So, that’s how we decided to do the Monthly Bucket List. 🙂 Each month only has one item, because we are busy by nature and I want to keep this fun and easy for our crew.  Some of these bucket list items are serving-centered, some are just plain fun, and some are a little bit silly!   We’ve already planned it all out, and here’s what we have!


Clean out drawers, closets, toys, and anything that collects extra stuff! SIMPLIFY. I am thinking this will take all month to accomplish! 🙂

We felt like this one was kind of lame (even though sorely needed), so we decided to add this is as well….

 Have a spontaneous Family adventure!

I’ll be talking about  both though!


Set up and Operate a Hot Cocoa Stand.


Visit a city  that you’ve never been to.  🙂


Take a treat to the Police or Fire Station


Living Room Campout!


Go for a Family Bike Ride


Go Berry Picking


Volunteer for Meals on wheels


Visit a Farmers Market


Have a Nerf Gun War


Have a Leaf Fight


Go on a Carriage Ride

Each month, I will share about how we do on our Monthly Bucket List.  🙂 I can’t wait to check these off our list and show you how we did it! It’s going to be a great 2018.

I hope you enjoyed a peak into my goals for 2018.   Also, Thanks so much for the fun link up ladies!  Happy Wednesday! XOXO Narci